The Silence Factor

According to Statistics South Africa, 1 in 5 women over the age of 18 has experienced physical abuse at the hands of their partner. This is a sad reality that South African women are subjected to every single day. I know someone reading this post has suffered from such. What is more alarming is that…

5 Reasons Why Girls Love a Guy With a Beard

Look, I’m not here to talk about just any type of beard. I’m talking about that full, thick beard, preferably all black but salt and pepper is also good. Beards make the girls go crazy and here are 5 reasons why: 🧔🏾Beards are sexy: They make the man look amazing. Your body could be popping….

Top 10 Lies Women Tell

1. “I’ve never done this before”: Chances are, we’ve done it before. We just don’t want you to know. 2. “I’m on my period”: Look, you’re going to have to understand that sometimes we just feel like hell spawned SOBs and we need something to blame all that f****ry on. And most times it’s cause…

Don’t Be Fooled! He’s Just Feeling Cold.

It’s mid-April. Autumn. But we all know, (read in a Jon Snow or Ned Stark voice) WINTER IS COMING!!! aka, CUFFING SEASON. I am not going to sit here and explain to you what happens in winter because we all know it gets freaken cold. So cold that people start playing games. Baby girl, stay…

Celibacy…How It’s Treating Me So Far.

Ha! Shocked, aren’t you? A whole me! Celibate. I chose to be celibate after I had enjoyed some fire coitus with a guy who left me swollen and screaming everytime I needed to urinate. Nothing strange. So I started thinking, I know I’m not going to end up with this guy because he’s a complete…

Why Women Cheat on Good Men

First let me say: I, Yolanda Yonela Mqoqi hereby do not hold myself responsible for any possible chest pains, newfound PMS or being iffy which maybe be caused by this post. The reasons these females gave me made me laugh but still left me feeling sad for men at the same time. If men ever…

How Dare You!

How dare you even attempt to make me feel like I am not worthy because I dont fit into your definition of ‘beautiful’ ? Why would I want to look like everyone else? Fit in with the crowd. Me? Never that! How dare you swear at me when I don’t respond to your hoots, whistles,…

Why Men Cheat on Good Women.

Maybe this has been done to death but its never done till I say something about it. A good woman. A girl that’s going to love you through think and thin. Be with you when you’re down and broke and still be with you when you’re high and monied. I’m talking about the kind of…

Masterbating is Good for You😏

Reading the mere title excited you! Confess it! Naughty lil thing. But I’m not here to judge, merely to share something I’ve been reading up on. Doctors promote masterbating because they say it’s good for you. And we can trust Doctors right? Yes! So here are 5 reasons you should masterbate. 1. Pleasure (obviously…unless you’d…

MY STRETCH MARKS❤

​ Women are given looks of disapproval and  disgust from men and even other women sometimes when they see you living worry-free with your stretch marks. I was listening to Kendrick Lamar’s Humble. There’s a part in that song that says “show me something natural like ass with some stretch marks”. I was like yeeeeees…

Bafazini Syndrome* 

​The term “Bafazini” is used to describe a man who feels the need to dabble or weighin on women issues. Gossipping, hair, nails, complexion…the works. There’s a difference between being interested and this thing men do. Men will get to a point where they’re arguing with you about something you know better about. How is…