If You Don’t Have Good Intentions, Please Just Leave Me Alone

This issue is one that tugs at my heart. I’ve watched and experienced this so many times. People with dirty intentions coming into your life just to cause you pain. It starts when these guys try to hullur at you. Busy calling you all types of sweet things just to get your attention. Trying to…

The Silence Factor

According to Statistics South Africa, 1 in 5 women over the age of 18 has experienced physical abuse at the hands of their partner. This is a sad reality that South African women are subjected to every single day. I know someone reading this post has suffered from such. What is more alarming is that…

5 Reasons Why Girls Love a Guy With a Beard

Look, I’m not here to talk about just any type of beard. I’m talking about that full, thick beard, preferably all black but salt and pepper is also good. Beards make the girls go crazy and here are 5 reasons why: 🧔🏾Beards are sexy: They make the man look amazing. Your body could be popping….

Hey Mama! You’re Doing Just Fine!

Firstly, since its cordial and just, let me apologize for my absence. My health hasnt been all that great lately but your favourite blogger is back😏 Since its Mother’s Day today, I figured, let me not write a corny Mother’s Day post but rather, let me direct it to the young mothers. We normally walk…

Forgive Yourself

There are many things that hold us back as humanity. Like YouTube videos not playing when you lock your phone. 15% VAT. Guys with tiny dick prints. Data prices. People who don’t understand that having earphones on means you don’t want to talk. I’m already exhausted just thinking about the above-mentioned.🤦🏾‍♀️ The one thing we…

Don’t Be Fooled! He’s Just Feeling Cold.

It’s mid-April. Autumn. But we all know, (read in a Jon Snow or Ned Stark voice) WINTER IS COMING!!! aka, CUFFING SEASON. I am not going to sit here and explain to you what happens in winter because we all know it gets freaken cold. So cold that people start playing games. Baby girl, stay…

Why Women Cheat on Good Men

First let me say: I, Yolanda Yonela Mqoqi hereby do not hold myself responsible for any possible chest pains, newfound PMS or being iffy which maybe be caused by this post. The reasons these females gave me made me laugh but still left me feeling sad for men at the same time. If men ever…