If You Don’t Have Good Intentions, Please Just Leave Me Alone

This issue is one that tugs at my heart. I’ve watched and experienced this so many times. People with dirty intentions coming into your life just to cause you pain. It starts when these guys try to hullur at you. Busy calling you all types of sweet things just to get your attention. Trying to…

The Man’s Female “Best Friend”

I have been through this so many times. The boyfriend’s female best friend. The one who’s always hanging around with him and being all buddy-buddy. The girl with whom he shares a “platonic” relationship👀. Yes. That girl. I’m talking from a girlfriend’s perspective today because I’m certain that there’s a girl out there who’s questioning…

Hey Mama! You’re Doing Just Fine!

Firstly, since its cordial and just, let me apologize for my absence. My health hasnt been all that great lately but your favourite blogger is back😏 Since its Mother’s Day today, I figured, let me not write a corny Mother’s Day post but rather, let me direct it to the young mothers. We normally walk…

Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself

This post was spurred on by a Facebook status I saw. This guy was complaining that people with iPhones always think they’re better than other people and never put the phones in their pockets. I laughed at this because not only was it utter BS, I could just see the bitterness just seething out of…

Black Child, Depression is Real.

“It’s just a stage. It’ll pass!” “You like attention” “Stop pretending” “There’s no such thing as depression” Now imagine all these things being said in your mother tongue by your parents or members of your family. Sound familiar? Hits home, doesn’t it? In the black community, there is no such thing as depression- according to…

Top 10 Lies Women Tell

1. “I’ve never done this before”: Chances are, we’ve done it before. We just don’t want you to know. 2. “I’m on my period”: Look, you’re going to have to understand that sometimes we just feel like hell spawned SOBs and we need something to blame all that f****ry on. And most times it’s cause…

Don’t Be Fooled! He’s Just Feeling Cold.

It’s mid-April. Autumn. But we all know, (read in a Jon Snow or Ned Stark voice) WINTER IS COMING!!! aka, CUFFING SEASON. I am not going to sit here and explain to you what happens in winter because we all know it gets freaken cold. So cold that people start playing games. Baby girl, stay…

Celibacy…How It’s Treating Me So Far.

Ha! Shocked, aren’t you? A whole me! Celibate. I chose to be celibate after I had enjoyed some fire coitus with a guy who left me swollen and screaming everytime I needed to urinate. Nothing strange. So I started thinking, I know I’m not going to end up with this guy because he’s a complete…

Become YOLANDA

Well, you’ve been reading my posts. I’m sure by now you’ve either developed a halo or a horn effect when it comes to me. Either because you think I’m good and that everything else about me is good or that because i’m not shy to speak my mind, that I’m rude or disrespectful or something….

Why Women Cheat on Good Men

First let me say: I, Yolanda Yonela Mqoqi hereby do not hold myself responsible for any possible chest pains, newfound PMS or being iffy which maybe be caused by this post. The reasons these females gave me made me laugh but still left me feeling sad for men at the same time. If men ever…

Graduation Frustration

Let’s first get this out of the way so you can continue reading in peace. This is not a post about ridiculing you or making you feel small and unworthy, no child! I don’t do that! Its quiet opposite. Keep reading! Gaudeamus Igitur… Thats the song most people relish to hear when they start pursuing…

How Dare You!

How dare you even attempt to make me feel like I am not worthy because I dont fit into your definition of ‘beautiful’ ? Why would I want to look like everyone else? Fit in with the crowd. Me? Never that! How dare you swear at me when I don’t respond to your hoots, whistles,…