26 Lessons I Have Learned before 26

1. GOD is everything! 😇 2. Life is tricky😖 3. Work Hard💪🏾 4. Never give up on something that keeps you up at night!😼 5. Not everyone will like you😪 6. Don’t lose sleep over people who don’t like you😴 7. Always be yourself🙂 8. Take care of yourself💁🏾‍♀️ 9. Drink water!!!! 💦 10. Some…

NOT YOUR WINTER STOCK

​You know, everybody finds flattery in being wanted by somebody. However, for me this takes a whole other turn when someone will refer to me as “Winter Stock”.  As I stated in my previous posts about Chubby Girls and Body Shaming, I’m a chunky shorty. Call myself “Chubbz” sometimes. I take pride in my apprearance…

MY STRETCH MARKS❤

​ Women are given looks of disapproval and  disgust from men and even other women sometimes when they see you living worry-free with your stretch marks. I was listening to Kendrick Lamar’s Humble. There’s a part in that song that says “show me something natural like ass with some stretch marks”. I was like yeeeeees…

Ladies…Don’t use 1ply Toilet Paper

Everytime I talk about this, there is always someone who calls me a “cheesegirl” or “rich” or insists that I’m being “extra”. It’s tags I’ve learned to ignore because I know what they don’t know. I know I’m not the only person who sees and feels how frail and fragile 1 ply toilet paper is….

5 Reasons Why Xhosa Girls Are Good Girlfriends

​ Firstly… Ndingu MaRhadebe uBhungani Mthimkhulu Ndlebe ntle zombini I am a Xhosa girl. I click my tongue and say words like “sana” and “kaloku”. I pride myself in all this. Today is all about my Xhosa girls! Here are the top 5 reasons, in my opinion…why you should date a Xhosa girl. 1.Beauty👑 I…

Bafazini Syndrome* 

​The term “Bafazini” is used to describe a man who feels the need to dabble or weighin on women issues. Gossipping, hair, nails, complexion…the works. There’s a difference between being interested and this thing men do. Men will get to a point where they’re arguing with you about something you know better about. How is…

Go See A Gynaecologist📣

​ Ive noticed there’s this fear when it comes to pap smears and going to the gynea. As though you’re gonna feel the pain. Like they’re gonna take a whole chunk of your cervix. When in actual fact the only thing you feel is the small pain from speculum used to open you up a…

Benefits of Dating a Chubby Girl🍑

I’m literally still woozy from the anaesthesia but surgery or not, I promised to deliver so here goes… For those that dont know me or havent seen me before, I’m a chubby shorty. 155cm height and 76kg weight. I am beautiful and honeyyy…I’m sexy (lol! Ask my man). Chubby girls always get bashed because we’re…

Health Motivator or Body Shamer? 

Theres no doubt that being healthy and active is definetely the “in-thing”. My feed on Instagram is overflowing with posts about clean eating, exercise and general health. Fitness motivators flex their muscles and share the secrets about how to get a flat tummy , thick thighs and a bomb ass. I feel like its time…

10 Reasons Why You Should Quit Alcohol 🍸

Since its Lent, I figured I should share what I’m giving up. Its Alcohol. Booze and I have a very colourful past that I’d like to forget😂. To help me feel good about why I choose to no longer drink, I came up with 10 reasons why YOU should quit alcohol too…even if its just…

Outgrowing People

I’ve always been labelled as a mean person. A hater even, but I’m unapologetic about the way that I am and the way way I live. Life is not stagnant. We go through things. Things that change us, things that make us dig deep into our beings…who we really are. In all this growth, there…

Be Careful What You Post!

​I know this topic has probably been done to death but what i saw the other day just ignited the spark again.  I was going through my timeline on Facebook and this time i wasnt using Free Facebook because the data gods had blessed me. So I see this girl’s picture with literally nothing but…