I Fear Being a Mom

This is one of the few times that I’m going to come out fully and be open, vulnerable and honest. Firstly, I’m not pregnant. So calm down. Heck, I’m still sorta-kinda celibate. Everyone gets to a certain age where they feel like if they would fall pregnant, they’d happily bring that little life into the…

If You Don’t Have Good Intentions, Please Just Leave Me Alone

This issue is one that tugs at my heart. I’ve watched and experienced this so many times. People with dirty intentions coming into your life just to cause you pain. It starts when these guys try to hullur at you. Busy calling you all types of sweet things just to get your attention. Trying to…

Stop Watering Dead Plants

“Graveyards are full of people who thought they had time.” That quote hit home and it got me thinking about the amount of time I have wasted on people who never even deserved it. There is nothing wrong with being a nice, decent human being. I mean, that’s the standard, right?. So why do people…

The Silence Factor

According to Statistics South Africa, 1 in 5 women over the age of 18 has experienced physical abuse at the hands of their partner. This is a sad reality that South African women are subjected to every single day. I know someone reading this post has suffered from such. What is more alarming is that…

5 Reasons Why Girls Love a Guy With a Beard

Look, I’m not here to talk about just any type of beard. I’m talking about that full, thick beard, preferably all black but salt and pepper is also good. Beards make the girls go crazy and here are 5 reasons why: 🧔🏾Beards are sexy: They make the man look amazing. Your body could be popping….

The Man’s Female “Best Friend”

I have been through this so many times. The boyfriend’s female best friend. The one who’s always hanging around with him and being all buddy-buddy. The girl with whom he shares a “platonic” relationship👀. Yes. That girl. I’m talking from a girlfriend’s perspective today because I’m certain that there’s a girl out there who’s questioning…

Hey Mama! You’re Doing Just Fine!

Firstly, since its cordial and just, let me apologize for my absence. My health hasnt been all that great lately but your favourite blogger is back😏 Since its Mother’s Day today, I figured, let me not write a corny Mother’s Day post but rather, let me direct it to the young mothers. We normally walk…

Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself

This post was spurred on by a Facebook status I saw. This guy was complaining that people with iPhones always think they’re better than other people and never put the phones in their pockets. I laughed at this because not only was it utter BS, I could just see the bitterness just seething out of…

Black Child, Depression is Real.

“It’s just a stage. It’ll pass!” “You like attention” “Stop pretending” “There’s no such thing as depression” Now imagine all these things being said in your mother tongue by your parents or members of your family. Sound familiar? Hits home, doesn’t it? In the black community, there is no such thing as depression- according to…

15 Lies Men Tell

Men Lie! Good God do men lie! I previously gave you a list of the Top 10 Lies Women Tell(Scroll down to read) and since I regard myself as an objective writer, let me give you the 15 out of many lies men tell. Since I clearly am not a man, I enlisted some assistance…

Top 10 Lies Women Tell

1. “I’ve never done this before”: Chances are, we’ve done it before. We just don’t want you to know. 2. “I’m on my period”: Look, you’re going to have to understand that sometimes we just feel like hell spawned SOBs and we need something to blame all that f****ry on. And most times it’s cause…

Forgive Yourself

There are many things that hold us back as humanity. Like YouTube videos not playing when you lock your phone. 15% VAT. Guys with tiny dick prints. Data prices. People who don’t understand that having earphones on means you don’t want to talk. I’m already exhausted just thinking about the above-mentioned.🤦🏾‍♀️ The one thing we…