“Graveyards are full of people who thought they had time.”
That quote hit home and it got me thinking about the amount of time I have wasted on people who never even deserved it.
There is nothing wrong with being a nice, decent human being. I mean, that’s the standard, right?. So why do people feel the need to take a giant crap on your head?
Reading this, I know you’ve had your fair share of people who have used and abused you. People who always call on you when they’re in need but when you need them, unavailable! Voicemail! Leave a message.
Last year I made friends with this girl. We got along so well. I helped her when it came to how to answer questions in a job interviews, stood in long queues with her while she sorted out her school endeavors, held her down when she was in shambles. That very same person went on to sleep with a guy she knew I was finessing with. I got to a point where I was guilt tripping myself trying to figure out what I had done for her to stop talking to me. Only to find that she was the actual seed of satan.
So I’m here to tell you to let it go! Stop being so available to be crapped on. Stop entertaining guys who just want to dip in your cookie jar. Stop entertaining girls who want to leave you broke. Stop wasting your time trying to resuscitate dead relationships.
Relationships, friendships, situation-ships and acquaintance-ships require two people for them to “bloom”. It is not your duty to be going up and down trying to keep whatever it is that brought you two together alive. It takes two. Also, you cannot guilt trip yourself about the way people choose to act. You are not responsible for them. As long as they are not the fruit of your womb or came from your scrotum, then let them be. You are not their parent. You cannot prosecute yourself because they choose to act like baboon faeces. Stop wasting your time and your life on them.
Stop wasting water! Leave dead plants to die.
Love and Light❤️✨