Stop Owning The Insults

Generally, I’m a very frank person who is unapologetically out there. I speak my mind and I don’t fear people and what they think of me. I have a strong personality dashed with a little humour. I am an acquired taste. I’m not for everyone’s palate and that’s really just okay. With this kind of…

I Fear Being a Mom

This is one of the few times that I’m going to come out fully and be open, vulnerable and honest. Firstly, I’m not pregnant. So calm down. Heck, I’m still sorta-kinda celibate. Everyone gets to a certain age where they feel like if they would fall pregnant, they’d happily bring that little life into the…

If You Don’t Have Good Intentions, Please Just Leave Me Alone

This issue is one that tugs at my heart. I’ve watched and experienced this so many times. People with dirty intentions coming into your life just to cause you pain. It starts when these guys try to hullur at you. Busy calling you all types of sweet things just to get your attention. Trying to…

Stop Watering Dead Plants

“Graveyards are full of people who thought they had time.” That quote hit home and it got me thinking about the amount of time I have wasted on people who never even deserved it. There is nothing wrong with being a nice, decent human being. I mean, that’s the standard, right?. So why do people…

The Silence Factor

According to Statistics South Africa, 1 in 5 women over the age of 18 has experienced physical abuse at the hands of their partner. This is a sad reality that South African women are subjected to every single day. I know someone reading this post has suffered from such. What is more alarming is that…

5 Reasons Why Girls Love a Guy With a Beard

Look, I’m not here to talk about just any type of beard. I’m talking about that full, thick beard, preferably all black but salt and pepper is also good. Beards make the girls go crazy and here are 5 reasons why: 🧔🏾Beards are sexy: They make the man look amazing. Your body could be popping….

The Man’s Female “Best Friend”

I have been through this so many times. The boyfriend’s female best friend. The one who’s always hanging around with him and being all buddy-buddy. The girl with whom he shares a “platonic” relationship👀. Yes. That girl. I’m talking from a girlfriend’s perspective today because I’m certain that there’s a girl out there who’s questioning…