Send Nudes

Nude: /njuːd/ noun plural noun: nudes 1. a naked human figure, typically as the subject of a painting, sculpture, or photograph. We’ve successfully transitioned into an age and time where almost the entire population has a smart phone. We’re able to connect with people in other parts of the world using this small device. Small,…

Held At Gunpoint Over R15

As I write this, its a full 24 hours after this happened. I’m not necessarily sure that I’m 100% okay but, I’m still here and that’s all that matters. I woke up in my partner’s bed. Bliss, right? Perfect way to start the day. I was in good spirits and looking forward to the day….

Ok, But Women Enjoy Sex Too

Title got you, right? Caught you! Naughty little thing. Anyway, shall we begin? Are you sure you’re ready? The vagina. Also known as the pussy, the coochie, the cookie, the box, usisi/the lady. This is the female reproductive organ. It’s not the most attractive thing but most people have come into the world via the…

Ofcourse You Should Vat-en-Sit (Cohabitate)

Vat-en-sit, also known as cohabitation, “ukipita” or “ukuhlalisana” is the act of 2 unmarried people living together. For years, we grew up knowing that cohabitation is not only a sin but is frowned upon. Our parents have always warned us about cohabitation. That especially as females, we shouldn’t be fascinated with the idea of living…

Sometimes You’re The Problem

I used to think that by 27, I would have alot of things figured out. That i’d be the best woman I could ever be to an amazing man because of the lessons my past has taught me. Instead, i’m here, thinking about how messed up I really am. My religious readers will know, I’ve…

Stop Owning The Insults

Generally, I’m a very frank person who is unapologetically out there. I speak my mind and I don’t fear people and what they think of me. I have a strong personality dashed with a little humour. I am an acquired taste. I’m not for everyone’s palate and that’s really just okay. With this kind of…

I Fear Being a Mom

This is one of the few times that I’m going to come out fully and be open, vulnerable and honest. Firstly, I’m not pregnant. So calm down. Heck, I’m still sorta-kinda celibate. Everyone gets to a certain age where they feel like if they would fall pregnant, they’d happily bring that little life into the…