The Silence Factor

According to Statistics South Africa, 1 in 5 women over the age of 18 has experienced physical abuse at the hands of their partner. This is a sad reality that South African women are subjected to every single day. I know someone reading this post has suffered from such. What is more alarming is that…

5 Reasons Why Girls Love a Guy With a Beard

Look, I’m not here to talk about just any type of beard. I’m talking about that full, thick beard, preferably all black but salt and pepper is also good. Beards make the girls go crazy and here are 5 reasons why: 🧔🏾Beards are sexy: They make the man look amazing. Your body could be popping….

The Man’s Female “Best Friend”

I have been through this so many times. The boyfriend’s female best friend. The one who’s always hanging around with him and being all buddy-buddy. The girl with whom he shares a “platonic” relationship👀. Yes. That girl. I’m talking from a girlfriend’s perspective today because I’m certain that there’s a girl out there who’s questioning…

Hey Mama! You’re Doing Just Fine!

Firstly, since its cordial and just, let me apologize for my absence. My health hasnt been all that great lately but your favourite blogger is back😏 Since its Mother’s Day today, I figured, let me not write a corny Mother’s Day post but rather, let me direct it to the young mothers. We normally walk…

Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself

This post was spurred on by a Facebook status I saw. This guy was complaining that people with iPhones always think they’re better than other people and never put the phones in their pockets. I laughed at this because not only was it utter BS, I could just see the bitterness just seething out of…

Black Child, Depression is Real.

“It’s just a stage. It’ll pass!” “You like attention” “Stop pretending” “There’s no such thing as depression” Now imagine all these things being said in your mother tongue by your parents or members of your family. Sound familiar? Hits home, doesn’t it? In the black community, there is no such thing as depression- according to…

15 Lies Men Tell

Men Lie! Good God do men lie! I previously gave you a list of the Top 10 Lies Women Tell(Scroll down to read) and since I regard myself as an objective writer, let me give you the 15 out of many lies men tell. Since I clearly am not a man, I enlisted some assistance…

Top 10 Lies Women Tell

1. “I’ve never done this before”: Chances are, we’ve done it before. We just don’t want you to know. 2. “I’m on my period”: Look, you’re going to have to understand that sometimes we just feel like hell spawned SOBs and we need something to blame all that f****ry on. And most times it’s cause…

Forgive Yourself

There are many things that hold us back as humanity. Like YouTube videos not playing when you lock your phone. 15% VAT. Guys with tiny dick prints. Data prices. People who don’t understand that having earphones on means you don’t want to talk. I’m already exhausted just thinking about the above-mentioned.🤦🏾‍♀️ The one thing we…

Don’t Be Fooled! He’s Just Feeling Cold.

It’s mid-April. Autumn. But we all know, (read in a Jon Snow or Ned Stark voice) WINTER IS COMING!!! aka, CUFFING SEASON. I am not going to sit here and explain to you what happens in winter because we all know it gets freaken cold. So cold that people start playing games. Baby girl, stay…

Celibacy…How It’s Treating Me So Far.

Ha! Shocked, aren’t you? A whole me! Celibate. I chose to be celibate after I had enjoyed some fire coitus with a guy who left me swollen and screaming everytime I needed to urinate. Nothing strange. So I started thinking, I know I’m not going to end up with this guy because he’s a complete…

Become YOLANDA

Well, you’ve been reading my posts. I’m sure by now you’ve either developed a halo or a horn effect when it comes to me. Either because you think I’m good and that everything else about me is good or that because i’m not shy to speak my mind, that I’m rude or disrespectful or something….